___ I want my loved one to be independent, but I'm not sure what he/she needs to do
that.
___ I want to care for my loved one, but I don't have the time to be there to meet all of
his/her needs.
___ I'm feeling resentful about the time I spend taking care of my elderly loved one.
___ I'm concerned about the time I miss from work while caring for my loved one.
___ I'm having difficulty balancing the care of my loved one with obligations to my
spouse/children/friends.
___ I feel tired, stressed, and overwhelmed by the responsibility of caring for my
elderly loved one.